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I'll be a college freshman this fall. I have a question about what you should or should not tell friends when it comes to your personal relationships.

To give more detail: aside from wanting to thrive academically, I also want to make new friends and possibly have a boyfriend. But for me, I already know that I won't tell my friends about having a boyfriend, or, if I do, it will be very little information.

My question comes from seeing people in real life who ask their friends when they have a partner, "How's the sex life?" And the person always answers! I feel like that's a VERY personal question that should only be kept between my boyfriend and me. It also annoys me when someone asks that question, too. I want to keep things private between my partner and me, not because I'm insecure, but because I've seen that when you tell other people about your relationship, and they know too much, it tends to sabotage that relationship.

However, I also know that boyfriends or girlfriends get angry when their partner doesn't introduce them to their friends and family. I'm fine with introducing my boyfriend to my family, especially my mom, but I want to keep things private when it comes to friends.

I want to tell my friends what Aria from "Pretty Little Liars" said when her friends asked about one of her relationships; she said "It's fine" to every question.

But also, I don't want to offend people by not telling them about boyfriends. Please help!